Communicating Successfully with Neurodiverse Kids: A Practical Guide.
Build a bridge of connection with neurodiverse kids.
Communicating with kids is a massive challenge, a constant dance of decoding and responding.
The challenge is amplified tenfold when a child’s brain operates on a different frequency.
I’m talking about neurodiversity, that spectrum of brains that includes autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and more.
With an estimated 15%-20% of children in Australian schools* (and similar numbers in other developed countries) classified as neurodivergent, we’d all better learn to communicate effectively with them.
Navigating communication with these kids can feel like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube blindfolded.
But it's absolutely possible, and the rewards are enormous.
Understanding the Wiring
First, ditch the idea of a one-size-fits-all communication approach.
I know, I know.
You’ve probably just worked out the communication formula, only to find it doesn’t always work.
Neurodiverse children process information differently.
They usually:
Take things literally: Sarcasm, metaphors, and abstract concepts fly right over their heads. (This is the hard one for me, as I so often use metaphors.)
Struggle with social cues: Facial expressions, body language, and implied meanings might be missed entirely. (I need to make sure I always make eye contact.)
Have sensory sensitivities: Noisy environments, bright lights, or even certain textures can overwhelm them, hindering their ability to communicate effectively. (My best work with neurodivergent kids is always done in quiet spaces.)
Experience processing delays: It might take them longer to understand and respond to what you're saying. (Patience, repetition and just-in-time instructions are my main modus operandi)
Recognising these differences is the first step towards building a communication bridge.
But recognition and application of effective strategies are two different things.
The second step - learning how to communicate with neurodivergent kids - is what I will show you next.
Practical Strategies for Connection
Now, let's get down to the nitty-gritty.